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Monday, April 25, 2011

A Change...for a Change ;-)

I wonder how my life would be if I had taken some other decisions for my life? The people I met here..things I learned..would it all be different? This feeling of love , care, affection..would it all be for someone else? Would my life be better or worse?

Many times we think of going back and change few decisions of our life..like few friends..career choice..Choosing the right college…loving someone else. But what thing make us sure that those decisions which we could have taken would prove to be right? They could have been even more disastrous!

The very idea of not having my dearest pal with me or to have someone else at his place, makes me goes nuts sometimes. Things I learned in this life till date..no matter how brutally life has treated me…it has given me some beautiful moments to cherish all my life. For people..as they say..nothing lasts..and hence no one can stay with you all life. But, what linger on are the memories you spent with them. ..both good and bad. We need them both… good and bad memories. It’s not bad to cry. Tears sometimes satiate the soul and make it feel alive. You hate some moments of your life…love some immensely…but now when you think about them…don’t you think life would have been incomplete without them!

I know I am not talking complete sense here but is it necessary to talk sense everytime? Is it always necessary to think how and in what way our life is going? I have stop thinking about it…for how long I would be able… I have no idea…but these days I am just not thinking about anything. And I don’t have to put any effort for that. ..this is the way things are working for me on their own. I don’t know if I call it numbness but yes I have recovered the trauma of past to an extent that today I almost don’t feel anything about it. I am fine with it! Not sad atleast! This change is good for a change!

10 comments:

विवेक Call me Vish !! said...

change for a change .....nice post
!

Jai Ho Mangalmay ho

Lehari. said...

:)

Shaan said...

srry bhaut din sey miss kar diya yaar "sanjeedagi aagai hai likney mei tumharey".....tum sey mulakat karney kaa dil kar raha hai.......dua karunga life mei ek bar tumsey mulakat hooo....keep it mansi (maan jaise...mansi)

Mansi said...

@Vivek:
thnx!

@Lehari:
:-)

@Shaan:
Thnx Shaan...:-)

Blasphemous Aesthete said...

reminds me of a quote:

Had I said that, had I done this,
So might I gain, so might I miss.
Might she have loved me? just as well
She might have hated, who can tell!


Change is necessary, and even if you could turn back time and undo the mistakes you now know that you did, you'd eventually land up somewhere else, because of some other new mistake. :P

Nice read.

Cheers,
Blasphemous Aesthete

Mansi said...

@BA:
loved the quote!
and yes...life is incomplete without mistakes!
thnx :-)

Sourav said...

"What do you first do when you learn to swim? You make mistakes, do you not? And what happens? You make other mistakes, and when you have made all the mistakes you possibly can without drowning - and some of them many times over - what do you find? That you can swim? Well - life is just the same as learning to swim! Do not be afraid of making mistakes, for there is no other way of learning how to live!"

said Alfred Adler, and I know you'd agree! Take care :)

Mansi said...

@Saurav:
I do!
thnx :-)

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thnx a lot !!
Glad to be spotted!
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